The way we aint...? I know terrible title, just read.
A former love can haunt you. Like ghosts, reaching out to grasp what was once, that or you will reach, wanting what you once had. Some, those wiser and more willful can shun them and stay away, yielding to a power beyond them… that urge unrelenting.
It’s strange because you are not with them for a reason! Maybe from you being a jerk or from them, or in most cases the both of you being jerks; regardless it is rare that a second time around will work out.
Sure it might seem interesting again at the beginning. Especially when you’ve dealt with worse jerks since the last time you had the former one. Especially when that sex is really potent… I know some women just really know how to toss that shit at you and well, we remember and we get hard just by thinking and looking. It’s that shit. But it is what it is, and that X is there for a reason. Just like on your report card, it’s the wrong fucking answer! Think!
The problem is we never do think. And sometimes we change and jerks become actual human beings. Then what? What if you were meant to be with other jerks to realize that you two jerks were meant for each other? Sometimes people have to experience other people in order to truly appreciate another person, or that actual person you are gonna end up with.
People change and grow, though sometimes for the worst other times for the better. And the beauty of growth is that it’s not a complete transformation, just a change in size. So you still get the same person just bigger… and I aint talking about size, I’m talking about character.
All I’m saying is use caution. Just because you have grown doesn’t mean that the other one has. And if you two have both grown and matured enough to handle each other now… think about it. What if even after growth you both find yourselves still with jerks.
I’m just presenting this as food for thought and for comments. I will continue with this after some feedback. Now this isn’t an actual quagmire for me, yet, I’m just setting the tone early. Some of you might very well be facing this and I’m here to help you grab this bull by the horns.
It’s strange because you are not with them for a reason! Maybe from you being a jerk or from them, or in most cases the both of you being jerks; regardless it is rare that a second time around will work out.
Sure it might seem interesting again at the beginning. Especially when you’ve dealt with worse jerks since the last time you had the former one. Especially when that sex is really potent… I know some women just really know how to toss that shit at you and well, we remember and we get hard just by thinking and looking. It’s that shit. But it is what it is, and that X is there for a reason. Just like on your report card, it’s the wrong fucking answer! Think!
The problem is we never do think. And sometimes we change and jerks become actual human beings. Then what? What if you were meant to be with other jerks to realize that you two jerks were meant for each other? Sometimes people have to experience other people in order to truly appreciate another person, or that actual person you are gonna end up with.
People change and grow, though sometimes for the worst other times for the better. And the beauty of growth is that it’s not a complete transformation, just a change in size. So you still get the same person just bigger… and I aint talking about size, I’m talking about character.
All I’m saying is use caution. Just because you have grown doesn’t mean that the other one has. And if you two have both grown and matured enough to handle each other now… think about it. What if even after growth you both find yourselves still with jerks.
I’m just presenting this as food for thought and for comments. I will continue with this after some feedback. Now this isn’t an actual quagmire for me, yet, I’m just setting the tone early. Some of you might very well be facing this and I’m here to help you grab this bull by the horns.
posted by Mr. McCalla | 1:50 AM
2 Comments:
Goodpeoples, I not saying I'm in this sort of situation now. But ever so often we find ourselves face to face with a past love, on some Mary J Blige shit!
And sometimes you break up with people whom you should have just endured the hardship with, since you were gonna get right back together anyway or... the worst case scenario, you after say 6 or 8 years later still find them lingering within your mind...
Some people can leave that everlasting essense, whether because they did the nasty in an incredible way, or they were just in sync with you emotionally and intellectually...
Let's talk about this!
Come on blogger don't be shy...
So damn true English. But the thought of rekindling that old flame again, especially when it was hot and smoldering...!?
Sometimes the thought alone is temptation enough.
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